Sweet M has been sleeping in his toddler bed at night pretty much since we received our household goods here in Oahu.
We weren’t totally sure how it would go since he’s always been a co-sleeper, but it was a pretty smooth transition.
He typically falls asleep in our bed, then we put him in his bed, and most nights he’d sleep there until somewhere between 3am-5am and then crawl into bed with us. It works.
He falls out of bed a million times sometimes. We have a ruggie right next to his bed, and put pillows all around the floor. Falling out of bed doesn’t even wake him up 9 times out of 10 – just J and I. He’s typically pretty graceful about it, actually.
Well, J leaves today for work travel today (yes, you read that correctly. We have a 12 day old and he’s leaving for work for a week. You can just call me Wonder Woman. Or, if we’re being honest, Sleep-Deprived-Disheveled-Caffeine-and-Sugar-Addict Woman. Basically the same thing, right?).
Anyway, I knew we had to do something about this sleep arrangement because no way I’d survive nursing a baby all night and constantly putting M into his bed throughout the night if he continuously swan dives out.
And yes, yes, I could just sleep with him in my bed, too, but he kind of needs someone to hold him in place so he doesn’t fall out. He’s that wriggly in his sleep (except when he shoves himself in his too-small Dock-a-Tot, haha). Which is hard to do when also trying to have a safe sleep space for Bean, and Sweet M not all up in her business (have I mentioned that he really loves her?).
So off I went to buy a mesh rail for his bed. Yes, his cute little toddler bed has a built-in side rail, but let’s be honest, it does nada because it’s not remotely high enough.
Well, all the reviews for the mesh bed rail I purchased declared it was not possible to install this on a toddler bed. In all fairness, the box even clearly states it’s intended for a twin or queen sized bed.
But you know what? Wonder Woman is too smart for that. Or SDDCSA Woman. I’ll leave that up to you.
I took a few screws out of Sweet M’s bed, removed the built-in rail, and voila! The rail that many reviewers claimed wouldn’t fit on a toddler bed suddenly fit perfectly.
And my sweet toddler slept peacefully and safely in his bed throughout the night, and still had the means the get out on his own and come cuddle J at 5am.
That folks, is how we are going to survive the upcoming week.